This was ages ago and I was only around the periphery. But this is what I remember. They had just started dating, and everything seemed to be going well. They hadn't met in person, but were talking on the phone and he had Seamus get a tattoo of her name in DAYD, which was a big deal to everyone. She commissioned him to do a picture of her daughter because he needed money, and he used that picture to advertise for other commissions.

Then out of nowhere, he announced to the DAYDians that he was ending the relationship. This was the first she ever heard of it; he never actually broke up with her in person. When she left the DAYD group shortly after, he told everyone that he thought her love of kinky fanfiction was inappropriate and that she was a bad mother because of it.

It was really gross and judgey stuff.