Gloves Off

[anonniemouse]

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Andy's marriage

[(Anonymous)]

Putting this here after crawling through the archives because I had no idea he married Meg, the lone standing member of the posse, and needed a sanity check. He spent years insisting that they had boundaries and were totally nonsexual and were JUST FRIENDS, right? It felt like an echo of his DAYDverse totally-not-gay-or-sexual soulmate dudes to me. What was the indication that this changed? Did they have a big romantic wedding?

Either way I hope she's doing okay!

Re: Andy's marriage

[(Anonymous)]

He spent years insisting that they had boundaries and were totally nonsexual and were JUST FRIENDS, right?

Yes he did--although he also made that one post about how incredibly hot she was and how noble he was for turning down her sexual advances, and he often referred to her as his muse, so he was probably sending mixed signals for YEARS. As far as I'm aware, there were no signs that they were calling themselves anything but friends until one day he let it slip that they were engaged. They did, indeed, have a big romantic wedding.

Re: Andy's marriage

[(Anonymous)]

He was playing the unresolved sexual and romantic tension thing to the hilt. I've been the victim of that kind of thing too, and when I started to break away from it and move toward normal dating with other guys, he suddenly decided he wanted me after all, despite all the ~torment~ about it before. I got away from him after a couple years. But I wouldn't be surprised if something like that finally happened with Meg, and when Andy realized he might actually lose her, he finally committed to her. As much as he can commit to anything.

It's all just a story to him.