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anonniemouse ([personal profile] anonniemouse) wrote in [community profile] tf_talk2015-04-16 10:55 am

Gloves Off

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Re: Meg answers anon asks

(Anonymous) 2015-04-29 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah, I've continued to pull back and keep the friendship in a healthier place even after moving in. I know a lot of you will probably never believe it (especially since some of you believe his parents are as manipulated as anyone else), but it was not Andy's doing to coerce or invite me to live with him. I was offered room and board by his parents in exchange for services such as yard work, taking care of the horses, etc. And truthfully, I will be here for several years longer than Andy will, and I'm certainly not intending to follow him, wherever he goes when he moves out.

- Meg

Re: Meg answers anon asks

(Anonymous) 2015-04-30 12:35 pm (UTC)(link)
If you don't mind answering some more questions, what were the circumstances of Andy's parents inviting you to move in? And how do you get along with them, generally? Are you treated as a houseguest, a boarder, or a friend of their son who's spending a few nights?

Re: Meg answers anon asks

(Anonymous) 2015-05-01 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
The previous groundskeeper, so to speak, got engaged and was set to move out at the end of August. The Players like having someone else around to help with general all-around-the-house things, but mostly with caring for the horses. When he moved out, I was asked if I would like to move in. Since I was living in my barracks at the time and the mere thought of staying overnight there would cause my heart to start racing in fear, I happily accepted the offer.

I get along with them really well! They're very kind to me and both have great senses of humor and are very caring people.

I'm treated basically like family. I'm involved in a lot of decisions like house maintenance and gatherings and such. I'm considered basically a close family friend to them, and they said regardless of my relationship with Andy, they will always be my friends and mentors. They're a lot like second parents to me.

- Meg