geeeee I wouldn't have been "aggressive" because people just were straight up ignoring - or DEFENDING - necromommycon's shoddy behaviour? maybe?? possibly??? survivors who are tired of having to shout over and over again to be taken seriously can reach a snapping point. you can say I wasn't "credible", but that's positioning the situation as starting with me. it didn't - it started with necro, and with the established trend in AA circles of treating anyone with a criticism as a minion of andy. my "aggression" stemmed from my anger at necro's total callousness and this community's willingness to ignore it and then behave like I was unreasonable and "a spy" for not ignoring it... and because everyone else agreed to ignore it, we were then blessed with a truly ghastly rape denial and a whole bunch of awful victim blaming. so uhhhhh, how much of an overreaction was it REALLY?