any kind of speculation or "interpretation" is bullshit and it is unethical.

except no one is claiming that. they're discussing how difficult her time with andy must have been, despite appearances, because her literally had her up at night fighting the undead. all the discussions is in relation to andy's abuse, not other areas of her life which are very fairly off-limits.

mods, you should keep track of ip addresses of people like this as abbey suggested. this sounds a heck of a lot like cfc to me, and even if it isn't, certain people will probably show up here at one point or another to derail discussions.