DA This!! These kinds of statements always put me in mind of the Captain Awkward posts about how being told explicitly "I would never hurt you" is actually a red flag for abusive men - if they have to say that, it means they consider harming you on the spectrum of possible actions available to them. Not hurting another person is the default state, not some superhuman act of goodness.
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This!! These kinds of statements always put me in mind of the Captain Awkward posts about how being told explicitly "I would never hurt you" is actually a red flag for abusive men - if they have to say that, it means they consider harming you on the spectrum of possible actions available to them. Not hurting another person is the default state, not some superhuman act of goodness.