It's going to be obvious. Megan is not involved. As an aside, I believe what Andy did that weekend and "that thing I'm not talking about" are different things. Someone mentioned it above, though.
I really can't go into details. Let's say Person B has a very sensitive personal issue, and Person A (Andy) starts constantly bringing it up in public when it doesn't need to be brought up, and framing it as though other people are attacking or insulting Person B about this issue, when no one said a fucking word about it. Andy then acts affronted and defends Person B against this stuff no one ever said, acting like he's defending Person B and trying to create this sense it being "us against the cruel world!"
Google "forced teaming". It describes that last bit pretty well.
And I don't mean Andy rebuffing questionable statements that are open to interpretation. I mean, if someone were talking about anything in relation to Person B, then Andy would find a way to insert this issue into it. Sometimes no one had to say anything at all and it would still be alluded to. Like, say someone said Person B was a gymnast (I mean this literally). Andy would say something like, "No, actually they call themselves a tumbler. Not that there is anything wrong with being a gymnast. It's similar to [insert issue here]. If you don't respect the label of tumbler and [blah blah], you are aggressing against Person B and I will do what I must to defend them!"
I will say this - this is something Andy should fucking know better than to mess with someone over. He knows exactly what he's doing when he brings it up and what effect it might have. He is an utterly repulsive human being.
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I really can't go into details. Let's say Person B has a very sensitive personal issue, and Person A (Andy) starts constantly bringing it up in public when it doesn't need to be brought up, and framing it as though other people are attacking or insulting Person B about this issue, when no one said a fucking word about it. Andy then acts affronted and defends Person B against this stuff no one ever said, acting like he's defending Person B and trying to create this sense it being "us against the cruel world!"
Google "forced teaming". It describes that last bit pretty well.
And I don't mean Andy rebuffing questionable statements that are open to interpretation. I mean, if someone were talking about anything in relation to Person B, then Andy would find a way to insert this issue into it. Sometimes no one had to say anything at all and it would still be alluded to. Like, say someone said Person B was a gymnast (I mean this literally). Andy would say something like, "No, actually they call themselves a tumbler. Not that there is anything wrong with being a gymnast. It's similar to [insert issue here]. If you don't respect the label of tumbler and [blah blah], you are aggressing against Person B and I will do what I must to defend them!"
I will say this - this is something Andy should fucking know better than to mess with someone over. He knows exactly what he's doing when he brings it up and what effect it might have. He is an utterly repulsive human being.