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ArmyGuy posted that June 19, btw, saying the dresses would be thrown out June 20. As of July 1, the dresses are still on Etsy.
Her reply to Teablogger's post about Andy moving to L.A:
"Yes, you deep fried loon: the person who finished a costuming degree (the one you assured us all he’d drop or flunk out of, but whatever) has moved to the city he announced he wanted to live in. Amazing.
Do keep proving your continued relevance by assessing Meg’s sweatiness at a con you weren’t at, though, because that will undoubtedly save plenty of rape victims or whatever. Make us all proud, you indefatigable little crusader."
Fuck her. Just seriously fuck her. Fuck ever thinking she was a decent, empathetic, likeable person.
"Yes, you deep fried loon: the person who finished a costuming degree (the one you assured us all he’d drop or flunk out of, but whatever) has moved to the city he announced he wanted to live in. Amazing.
Do keep proving your continued relevance by assessing Meg’s sweatiness at a con you weren’t at, though, because that will undoubtedly save plenty of rape victims or whatever. Make us all proud, you indefatigable little crusader."
Fuck her. Just seriously fuck her. Fuck ever thinking she was a decent, empathetic, likeable person.
Her problem is that she fancies herself a manipulator like Andy and now she's having her own little tantrum.
Necro's tags sure are telling. "cultlike dedication" and "online harassment". Now that she's been exposed as playing both sides for years, she's doubling down firmly in favor of Andy.
Necro's tags sure are telling. "cultlike dedication" and "online harassment". Now that she's been exposed as playing both sides for years, she's doubling down firmly in favor of Andy.
I suspected she was keeping tabs and would rear her nasty little head again. and of course, now it's all come out, she's given up all pretences and is letting her full grossness - the grossness I always saw lurking there - come out and... shine. and agreed - she has always fancied herself a manipulator like andy, and is pissed off she was rumbled.
of course, for someone so scathing of others' interest in this, she doesn't seem capable of letting it go. how many times has she deleted a blog now, after claiming loudly she's moving on?
of course, for someone so scathing of others' interest in this, she doesn't seem capable of letting it go. how many times has she deleted a blog now, after claiming loudly she's moving on?
"You’ll find nothing like this on Zara or Fashion Nova!" well, duh. the markets are completely different.
how he justifies asking those prices with no reputation or portfolio to refer to is... lol.
how he justifies asking those prices with no reputation or portfolio to refer to is... lol.
It's a fair-to-middling good 50-foot dress. In that, it looks decent from 50 feet away, which is the point of costuming for live theater. It does not have a very 'finished' or sturdy look to it, and I doubt it would stand up well to the rigors of theater or filming. There's also a lot of sloppiness in the little details. I'm sure the hem and fine details are probably hand sewn, but the rest looks very much like machine stitching. There's nothing bad about that, in nearly thirty years of hanging around with costumers I've only seen one dress that was entirely hand-stitched (a antebellum ballgown) and the woman who made it said she would never do that again, it was too much work and very physically demanding.
Neither of these dresses would be winning anything at a CostumeCon, either for workmanship or masquerade competition. They're nice hall-costume-type pieces, maybe. They're not brilliant, but they're not bad, either.
Neither of these dresses would be winning anything at a CostumeCon, either for workmanship or masquerade competition. They're nice hall-costume-type pieces, maybe. They're not brilliant, but they're not bad, either.
God, I *wish* she would delete her blog and move on!
I'm no expert at all, but it bothers me how uneven the black/red band looks on the red dress (see second pic). The dress doesn't seem to be placed crooked on the mannequin or anything, and even then you'd expect that to be fixed for the photo. It just looks like it's attached unevenly, at 7-8 and 8-9 red detail respectively. Am I just missing something?
The pink dress looks nice enough. Something about how the model holds her arms makes me wonder if she's holding the bodice in place, but that's speculation on my part.
The pink dress looks nice enough. Something about how the model holds her arms makes me wonder if she's holding the bodice in place, but that's speculation on my part.
Right? She's REALLY pissed off no one will give her the time of day now. It's incredible how people who get off on imagining themselves as smarter and better than others completely fall apart when they're finally exposed. Posting questions about Little Sam and Andy's family like she's exposing some supreme cover up. Anyone who's been through these sorts of situations knows first hand not all victims will agree about their experience or feel kindly towards each other, and sometimes shutting down contact between each other is the safest thing to do for all involved. Andy's kind of abuse has a tangible legacy on social groups. And unfortunately, families are often involved in enabling and cleaning up after destructive family members. She's trying to suggest something sinister where it's nothing more than the usual fallout that always follows people like Andy, with the usual toll on human lives and relationships.
But I'll bet she's spent the last few months in andy's inbox. So much for being too smart to fall for andy's shtick. But of course, that's OUR fault, not hers and certainly not, never, Andy's.
But I'll bet she's spent the last few months in andy's inbox. So much for being too smart to fall for andy's shtick. But of course, that's OUR fault, not hers and certainly not, never, Andy's.
I think what confuses me about I Know The Real 100% Truth about Little Sam and Andy's parents is...where will Necro have got that information from? From Andy himself, or a friend of his speaking on his behalf/in his defence in the way CFC did when Necro was first in contact with Andy c.2011. And where would any friend/mouthpiece have got that information from? From Andy, who Necro knows lies and manipulates, because she gave so many examples of him lying and manipulating her when she revealed all their early messages in 2014. Andy, who Necro would get furious at every time he repeated the lie of him being underage when he got involved with Abbey. And now she's trying to hint that her information is somehow more truthful or credible than the rest of the internet could ever know, despite it coming from a lying liar who lies and not only that...but a lying liar who has a history of lying to her.
Where/when did she say all this? (I feel out of the loop)
What is exceedingly interesting about this is that as a defense of Andy, it's useless. As a strike against TB, also useless.
Except for these small updates about Andy graduating university, or talk about things mostly just adjacent to the situation, the Andy-Awareness sphere has been extremely quiet. Given another--say--six months, people would have stopped checking this place often, lots of people have moved away from tumblr.....this was probably his greatest and best chance to simply slip away from monitoring, and do whatever he wanted.
This leads me to think it's all attention-seeking. If its not Andy wanting attention in his usual manner (which would be remarkably dumb at this point), it's Necromommycon wanting attention on herself, and using her relationship with Andy to do it. Or there's something going on in her life, and she's using this as a stress-relief valve. Either way, all it really does is highlight her irrelevance.
Except for these small updates about Andy graduating university, or talk about things mostly just adjacent to the situation, the Andy-Awareness sphere has been extremely quiet. Given another--say--six months, people would have stopped checking this place often, lots of people have moved away from tumblr.....this was probably his greatest and best chance to simply slip away from monitoring, and do whatever he wanted.
This leads me to think it's all attention-seeking. If its not Andy wanting attention in his usual manner (which would be remarkably dumb at this point), it's Necromommycon wanting attention on herself, and using her relationship with Andy to do it. Or there's something going on in her life, and she's using this as a stress-relief valve. Either way, all it really does is highlight her irrelevance.
From Necromommycon's Tumblr, returnofthenecromommycon:
"It’s true though: I’ve totally manipulated a live human being into spending six or seven years of their life micro-stalking every action by some trans dude and spouting volumes upon volumes of bullshit amateur psychoanalysis.
If only I could somehow harness that energy to answer specific questions about this soap opera...like, what exactly did Little Sam do to get unfriended? What did Andy’s parents really think of the whole train wreck?
#bullshit #online harrassment #lying liars who lie"
"It’s true though: I’ve totally manipulated a live human being into spending six or seven years of their life micro-stalking every action by some trans dude and spouting volumes upon volumes of bullshit amateur psychoanalysis.
If only I could somehow harness that energy to answer specific questions about this soap opera...like, what exactly did Little Sam do to get unfriended? What did Andy’s parents really think of the whole train wreck?
#bullshit #online harrassment #lying liars who lie"
The thing that struck me the most about her Thanfictioning blog was how much Necro was trying to center herself in the entire Andy "mythos," such as it is.
Her latest update seems to only support her desire to be seen as a major (and possibly the only relevant) player, even to the extent of completely ignoring Abbey's continued feedback, Molly's story, etc.
If this was her endgame all along, it's definitely an off-the-rails attempt.
Her latest update seems to only support her desire to be seen as a major (and possibly the only relevant) player, even to the extent of completely ignoring Abbey's continued feedback, Molly's story, etc.
If this was her endgame all along, it's definitely an off-the-rails attempt.
Exactly! I literally forget about this place for months at a time. I check it so irregularly I didn't find out about all the drama with Molly in LA last year until weeks after it happened. When Andy keeps a low profile, this place tends to reflect that. When he's said something ridiculous or been outed for pulling some kind of manipulative or abusive shit again, that's when this place gets busy.
Necromommycon's bitchy additions to TB's factual and really quite mild update post about Andy graduating/moving to LA just come across as a childish desire to stir up wank where there really wasn't any. It appears less like she's trying to defend Andy for Andy's sake as it is she's trying to shade/discredit TB. Necro's just so pathetically bitter about how she was owned by Tea Blogger in regards to her disgusting Thanfictioning blog.
Necromommycon's bitchy additions to TB's factual and really quite mild update post about Andy graduating/moving to LA just come across as a childish desire to stir up wank where there really wasn't any. It appears less like she's trying to defend Andy for Andy's sake as it is she's trying to shade/discredit TB. Necro's just so pathetically bitter about how she was owned by Tea Blogger in regards to her disgusting Thanfictioning blog.
*Has* anyone actually said Necromommycon has manipulated Tea Blogger into keeping tabs on Andy? I've never heard anyone claim that kind of thing before and I'd think them a bit daft if they did.
The fact she thinks of the trail of pain, anger and destruction Andy has left in his wake over the last 20 years as a "soap opera" is telling and very self-revealing.
The fact she thinks of the trail of pain, anger and destruction Andy has left in his wake over the last 20 years as a "soap opera" is telling and very self-revealing.
Some of us said she *fancies* herself a manipulator, and while she's been duplicitous, I don't think any of us is casting her as TB's puppetmaster.
I think she's trying to be sarcastic, dismissive of Andy's abuse and even Andy himself (now calling him just some trans dude), discrediting of TB (and by extension, other AA bloggers), PLUS center herself all at once, which results in just a big ol' mess.
It's a tantrum and she wants people to jump to all sorts of conclusions. You'd think she'd bother deleting her own #thanfiction posts, first, and get rid of the inconsistencies in this new narrative she's forming.
It's a tantrum and she wants people to jump to all sorts of conclusions. You'd think she'd bother deleting her own #thanfiction posts, first, and get rid of the inconsistencies in this new narrative she's forming.
incredibly so! she's posted another venomous blog:
"“Here are eleven billion of my favourite podcasts about sociopaths and abusers, which is why I’m uniquely qualified to do a totally unbiased diagnosis of someone I never met based on the word of his ex-girlfriend.” Okay, that checks out. I’m completely convinced now."
this has taken on such an extremely vindictive personal angle now, though I suspect necro is mostly embarrassed at her exposure and is just targeting TB most specifically as an easy outlet. now that her own fawning admiration of Andy is being discussed, she has to save face.
"“Here are eleven billion of my favourite podcasts about sociopaths and abusers, which is why I’m uniquely qualified to do a totally unbiased diagnosis of someone I never met based on the word of his ex-girlfriend.” Okay, that checks out. I’m completely convinced now."
this has taken on such an extremely vindictive personal angle now, though I suspect necro is mostly embarrassed at her exposure and is just targeting TB most specifically as an easy outlet. now that her own fawning admiration of Andy is being discussed, she has to save face.
you're so right about how she was trying to center herself in the whole thing - so much of this has been about getting attention for herself, and validation of her fantasy as smarter than everyone and able to manipulate us all.
and still calling Andy "some trans dude". what is she even trying to achieve with that?
and still calling Andy "some trans dude". what is she even trying to achieve with that?
Yeah that post in particular is exceedingly weird and creepy.
And unintentionally funny in that, of the two of them, she's the only one who's called Andy a sociopath.
Has she? Where did she do that?
Wow! Necro is grudging HARD!
Thing is it doesn't reflect badly on TB at all, but it sure as hell makes Necro look petty and kinda pathetic.
Thing is it doesn't reflect badly on TB at all, but it sure as hell makes Necro look petty and kinda pathetic.
I know! It's just such a weird angle to take! I'm certain Teablogger wouldn't think there was any truth in it either.
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