continued Thatfucker discussion

[anonniemouse]

Since we've been kicked off FFA for the week, please feel free to continue the anon discussion here. Apologies if this is a big flop - I've never made a DW community before!

The rules are vaguely the same as they are over on FFA. Please refrain from being too much of an asshole, making personal attacks, posting identifying information or engaging in transfail.

ETA: If there's information you'd like to see archived (journal/blog posts related to Andy, etc.), please dump it here and link to it from the main post for discussing.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

That won't last, I don't think it can. Meg's young and probably not very wise but I can't see her sticking around forever. If/when she wises up to him, the fallout is going to be very interesting indeed considering I believe she's Andy's primary victim. THAT is when he'll probably bail.

[(Anonymous)]

Makes sense. It's pretty much exactly what he did with Abbey.

[(Anonymous)]

I suspect Meg will break with him when and if he starts dating someone who isn't her. That or Andy will cut her off when the inevitable drama over him dating people starts.

[(Anonymous)]

Or when she starts dating someone else?

[(Anonymous)]

I think that's unlikely for a number of reasons that I don't want to get into, mainly for her privacy's sake.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I think it's pretty obvious that Meg is in love with Andy. The "he couldn't be a sexual harasser b/c I sexually harassed him and he turned me down!" post made that very clear.

BTW, does anyone know of a place that's still around? She deleted the post, and IIRC none of the AA bloggers reblogged it out of respect for her.

[(Anonymous)]

Someone somewhere probably has a screenshot, but it wasn't the kind of thing anyone wanted to reblog, IIRC. Too sad.

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Yeah. :( I really feel for her. I hope she gets out, but I don't think she will until, as they said upthread, Andy starts dating someone else. I'm reminded of Martha's parting monologue from s3 of Doctor Who.

[(Anonymous)]

Even if I knew nothing at all about her end of it, I'd still think it was pretty unlikely just knowing what I do about how Andy operates. Where would she find the time or energy?

[(Anonymous)]

Does Andy ever really "date"? I get the impression he's not interested much in sex or relationships. Like it doesn't seem very high on his list of priorities.

[(Anonymous)]

If it's useful to him in terms of control and attention, I think he's more than happy to get into a relationship, provided there's a bare minimum of physical attraction present AND he can leech off them in some way.

[(Anonymous)]

Described like that he sounds like Light Yagami. You know, Light Yagami if he were significantly stupider and had less real power. But the same ego.

[(Anonymous)]

I always thought he was one to go for overly close, overly intense, overly intimate relationships with plenty of unresolved sexual tension rather than actually consummating anything because that way there's always that potential. Think Meg, Rhys, Dana, Laura. He's used the same kind of tactics on all of them.

[(Anonymous)]

It also enables him to use the same tactics on others without the betrayal that they'd feel if they were actually in a relationship.