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tf_talk2015-04-09 12:58 pm
anonniemouse) wrote in tf_talk2015-04-09 12:58 pm
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continued Thatfucker discussion
Since we've been kicked off FFA for the week, please feel free to continue the anon discussion here. Apologies if this is a big flop - I've never made a DW community before!
The rules are vaguely the same as they are over on FFA. Please refrain from being too much of an asshole, making personal attacks, posting identifying information or engaging in transfail.
ETA: If there's information you'd like to see archived (journal/blog posts related to Andy, etc.), please dump it here and link to it from the main post for discussing.
The rules are vaguely the same as they are over on FFA. Please refrain from being too much of an asshole, making personal attacks, posting identifying information or engaging in transfail.
ETA: If there's information you'd like to see archived (journal/blog posts related to Andy, etc.), please dump it here and link to it from the main post for discussing.
Re: Lundy Bancroft on what abusers get out of their abuse (and why Andy will never change)
(Anonymous) 2015-04-17 01:33 pm (UTC)(link)and it is quite obvious in Andy as well, as nonnies smarter than me have pointed out - he puts effort into very little (mostly his headgames)
and I do believe it's laziness coupled with disregard for other people that drives a lot of heinous shit people like Andy do
(incidentaly, this is how I got out of a different cult-like situation. I got incredibly sick and I was no use - what else I became tiring to be around and my abuser pretty much dropped me. She skulked along the sidelines to see if I get better so she could use me again, but she never regained the level of interest in me)