Circling back to how SAD he is because he LOST FIFTEEN FRIENDS and he DOESN'T KNOW WHY, did anyone else catch that he claims he doesn't know what people have heard or what people have said about him?
He knows full what what people say about him - he knows about here, he knows about people like teablogger. It's all there for public viewing. He's trying to act like people are coming up with random shit like "Andy is the Zodiac killer" when in reality people have only attributed things to him that HE ACTUALLY DID.
I just... I really shouldn't be surprised, but surely that bullshit is just a bridge too far. He can't simultaneously claim to know that people are spreading rumors about him online AND YET ALSO have no idea what the contents of those rumors are. What absolutely bullshit.
It reminds me of a term people use in support communities for folks with estranged/difficult parents like r/JUSTNOMIL and r/raisedbynarcissists - "Missing Missing Reasons"
This article digs into it in depth: http://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html
Essentially the idea is that these abusive parents will hold 2 beliefs simultaneously: That their kids hold on to a laundry list of petty grievances that they'll fling in their parents' faces in long diatribes, pages-long letters, rants, etc...while they also will argue that they have no idea why their child has limited contact, and how blindsided they are by everything and if they don't even know what they DID how can they RESPOND or MOVE FORWARD????
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"I don't know what's been said about me!"
(Anonymous) 2018-06-25 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)He knows full what what people say about him - he knows about here, he knows about people like teablogger. It's all there for public viewing. He's trying to act like people are coming up with random shit like "Andy is the Zodiac killer" when in reality people have only attributed things to him that HE ACTUALLY DID.
I just... I really shouldn't be surprised, but surely that bullshit is just a bridge too far. He can't simultaneously claim to know that people are spreading rumors about him online AND YET ALSO have no idea what the contents of those rumors are. What absolutely bullshit.
Re: "I don't know what's been said about me!"
(Anonymous) 2018-06-25 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)Worth reading the article linked in there, it's dead-on accurate wrt what Andy is doing.
Re: "I don't know what's been said about me!"
(Anonymous) 2018-06-25 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)This article digs into it in depth: http://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html
Essentially the idea is that these abusive parents will hold 2 beliefs simultaneously: That their kids hold on to a laundry list of petty grievances that they'll fling in their parents' faces in long diatribes, pages-long letters, rants, etc...while they also will argue that they have no idea why their child has limited contact, and how blindsided they are by everything and if they don't even know what they DID how can they RESPOND or MOVE FORWARD????